Nonbinary Writer
At some point in the middle of all this nonsense I thought to myself “I'm nonbinary and a writer, but it's not like I'm a nonbinary writer.”
But whenever I had a first person narrator and could avoid it, I carefully avoided mentioning their gender. I also tend to pick gender neutral names.
There have been several characters of mismatched gender/sex. Lots of themes of disconnects between body and mind. Unconventional gender roles and expression. Maybe I'll go into detail about then here one day.
So it turns out that while I was never writing about being nonbinary, I was still writing while being nonbinary.
Honestly this is the thing that gives me certainty in what I am the most.