Re: What if I'm wrong
To be clear, I don't think I'm wrong. I think the nature of non-binary-ness just elicits these questions on a daily basis. The male/female dichotomy is so prevalent in my (western) society that staying apart of it takes a certain amount of constant resistance. And no one is capable of that.
The other part is, there's no clear picture of what a non binary person is—what they look like, how they act, how they think. Pictures are becoming clearer, but they're far from mainstream. In some ways the lack of a stereotype is freeing, in others it's exhausting. There's no easy way to say to others “Look at that. That's what I am.” You always have to explain the whole of yourself in detail, all the time.
And I guess that's another reason why I started this blog: Add my part to the story of the third gender.